007 | “Mess and Mental Health - The Hidden Shame of Clutter” with my friends, The Pahl Sisters, Decluttering Experts

In this interview with the Pahl Sisters, decluttering experts, we talk about the impact of mess on mental health, and vice versa.

▶︎▶︎ EPISODE NOTES

In this episode of The RelateGREAT! Podcast, host Jonathan Sherman is joined by Chelsea Paul and Karissa Pahl from All of You Services, a cleaning company that goes beyond traditional cleaning to address mental health struggles. Jonathan discovered Chelsea through a heartfelt social media post highlighting the connection between depression and overwhelming mess. Chelsea and Karissa share their approach to helping clients declutter and deep clean their homes without judgment, emphasizing the therapeutic benefits of a tidy space. They discuss the emotional and relational impacts of living in disorganized environments, their personal connection to mental health issues like ADHD, and their unique teamwork dynamics. The episode concludes with practical advice for listeners feeling overwhelmed by clutter.

  • 00:00 Introduction to Chelsea's Post on Depression and Messiness

  • 02:44 Mental Health and Cleaning: A Deeper Connection

  • 03:29 Client Experiences and Vulnerability

  • 06:12 The Process of Decluttering and Organizing

  • 08:58 Challenges and Boundaries in Cleaning 10:42 The Emotional Impact of a Clean Space

  • 21:16 The Sisters' Journey into Cleaning

  • 25:13 Hyper-Focused and Satisfied

  • 26:08 Family Therapist Insights

  • 26:23 Navigating Family Business Dynamics

  • 27:24 Communication Challenges and Strategies

  • 31:50 Impact of Home Organization on Relationships

  • 40:13 Tips for Listeners: Cleaning and Mindset Hacks

  • 44:07 Final Thoughts and Contact Information

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