Building Relationships
with In-Law Children
Description
Nightmare stories of in-law problems are legendary. However, they don’t have to be. In this discussion, we will examine how to build a positive relationship with your children-in-law through the following five areas:
Accept & Respect
Boundaries
Build Relationships
Conflict
Example: Model the Relationship You Want
This was a presentation and discussion with a group of mothers-in-law called “The Grandma Guild” :-).
Included:
1 hour 10-minute audio of the live class (you can listen while you do other things)
PDF: A 10-page handout.
Detailed Description:
In this presentation, Jonathan Sherman, a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, discusses the complexities and strategies for building relationships with in-law children. He shares insights gathered from years of counseling experience, inviting participants to share their experiences. Sherman speaks about common issues such as managing expectations, respecting boundaries, and handling conflicts. He also underscores the importance of patience, acceptance, and the need to allow in-law children to make their own mistakes and learn from them. The session includes real-life examples and personal anecdotes, providing practical advice and fostering a deeper understanding of family dynamics.
00:00 Introduction and Welcome
00:26 Building Relationships with In-Law Children
02:16 Managing Expectations and Conflicts
04:07 Setting Boundaries and Respecting Differences
07:41 Navigating Family Dynamics and Emotional Challenges
12:22 The Importance of Communication and Understanding
17:07 Personal Stories and Experiences
27:05 Addressing Specific Family Issues
36:49 Generational Depression and Family Dynamics
37:16 Intervention and Counseling
37:57 Understanding and Managing Family Relationships
38:19 Setting Boundaries with In-Laws
41:42 The Playground Rule: Respecting Family
43:25 Animal Training for Humans: Patience in Relationships
52:48 Navigating Adult Children and Boundaries
55:58 Balancing Family and Church Responsibilities
57:35 The Importance of Communication and Validation
01:09:13 Concluding Thoughts and Reflections
Meet your instructor
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Meet your instructor ✳
Jonathan D. Sherman, MS, LMFT, is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Relationship Strategist, and speaker. He specializes in “Creating GREATness in Relationships” through three main areas of focus: Marriage Mastery, Parent Training, and Self-Mastery. He has been in practice for 30 years and has given over 500 presentations to over 50,000 people. He is the author of The 7 Principles for Building Strong Families workbook and companion online course. You can reach him and listen to “The RelateGREAT! Podcast with Jonathan Sherman and Friends" at RelateGREAT.net
You can read his full bio at RelateGREAT.net/about and see his vita at RelateGREAT.net/vita